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Why AVA: History
By Ruth Hill, Executive Minister
Department of Women Ministries
Evangelical Covenant Church
Several years ago one of my closest girlfriends shared with me that
she had been abused by her first husband. I was stunned, partly because
I had known her a long time and never had a clue.
I sat with a woman after a retreat message, a nice, sweet
grandmotherly type. Her question was whether she should accept her
former husband’s plea to live with him again, separate bedrooms of
course, and basically take care of him. Why had she left? He had abused
her for 40 years.
I worked with a woman who was still recovering from her husband’s
abuse. Her stories sent shivers through me. After ten years she was
still working on restoring her self-esteem.
Twelve women participated in one of our Cross-cultural
Opportunities. A speaker one evening began by saying statistically at
least one of the women had been abused. I seriously doubted it. One
pulled me aside the next day, sharing that she had been abused and
wanted help to recover.
My journey was repeatedly intersecting with those whose journey
involved abuse. I couldn’t see any of the clues. Still can’t. I was
frightened by their stories. Still am. I was powerless to help. Or was
I?
Then a friend introduced me to Elouise Spencer, Executive Director
of WellSpring, Center for Hope, in Chicago, IL. Over lunch she gave me
a mini course on the topic of abuse. At the end, she leaned across the
table and said, “So, Ruth, what are you going to do about this?” Her
very serious question required an equally serious response. What was I
going to do? “I honestly don’t know,” I replied, “but whatever the Lord
asks me to do, I will do it.”
In December 2002 the Lord showed me that he would use Women
Ministries to bring it to the attention of the Covenant denomination. I
shared with our leaders a vision of hiring a Project Manager to
advocate for victims of abuse through sustained and informed
leadership. It moved from the Board chair to the Compassion Mercy and
Justice Ministry to the whole Board, and finally to our 2003 annual
meeting. Project 2004 “Light for AVA – Advocacy for Victims of Abuse”
was launched.
The response was immediate and enthusiastic. There was great
eagerness for tools to minister to victims; there were numerous
testimonies of those who walked or were still walking the journey of
abuse. Hope for help was in sight. And there was also great
anticipation to learn whom God had prepared to lead the initiative as
Project Manager.
There was a woman in California finishing her doctoral thesis on a
church model for responding to teenagers exposed to domestic violence.
Community service and her role as associate pastor gave her many
opportunities to use her knowledge to help victims. To people’s
question as to what she wanted to do when she finished her studies,
Rev. Aleese Moore-Orbih would reply, “I have this dream of how I would
educate the whole church about abuse!”
In May 2004 Aleese picked up a newsletter from Covenant Offices.
There in print was her own dream: to provide resources to bring healing
to victims of abuse, to equip the church to minister to victims of
abuse, to provide preventive measures against abuse. She was reading
the goals of the AVA initiative in the Women Ministries’ portion of the
President’s Newsletter.
In June 2004 Aleese was unanimously affirmed by the AVA Search
Committee as the woman the Lord had prepared for the position. She was
consecrated for service at Triennial XI August 2004 and began work in
September. We discovered that the Lord gave her the same vision in the
same month as he gave it to me. It is an awesome thing to move in the
current of God’s will!
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